Initial thoughts

So why even do this? I don't know I guess I wanted a way to be able to talk to you both maybe when you're more able to understand what it is I'm trying to say. Maybe your dad won't always be there and he wanted to get ahead of the curve a make sure to provide the advice and encouragement you both will wan't or even need some day. For any reason you chose I want to at the very least offer my thoughts. 7 years into daughter 1's life and so many amazing things have come to mind, I am never one not to tell you what I think about your behavior or what you're doing, I will always be honest to a fault. Perfect I will never be!! I will never expect you to be either, it's imposible. I will expect you to be your best in everything you do. Not the best and every one of us fail from time to time. Failure is the only way we grow and learn. There are so many things that I never belived that my parents warned me about. The words I will be different came out so many times. I expect it will be a phrase you use often also. You will be different don't worry. I am different and all the "stuff" my parents taught me made me that way. They made me better than i could have been without them. We can only try to give you the foundation to make the best life you possibly can. Our goal is to spoil you just enough so you know you don't need to wan't for anything but to not give you everything you want so you grow to desire the drive to work for what you need.

I'm going to try and keep these very short Like antidotes for life. I'll do my best not to ramble and totally screw up the grammer and spelling. Take nothing I ever say negatively . I will only say it in love and respect.

You both are loved cherished always!
Love, Daddy